The average life span of a Great Pyrenees is 10-12 years. Atlas will be 11 on his next birthday. He's doing well for an old hound. He's slowed down a lot, not that he was ever Speedy Gonzales or Taco the Chihuahua, but he can still guard a food bowl like nobody's business.
Atlas's purpose here at HBF was never to guard sheep; the girls run that show. His duties were to protect me, and to be our pup baby daddy, and he has performed both tasks quite well. I have no complaints. I'm still alive and have four of his offspring.
Atlas is a simple dog. He only has two life rules and they apply to all non-humans. This includes ants and stink bugs:
1. Stay at least 20 feet away from my food bowl.
2. Never, ever yap in my face.
One of my neighbors said, "He's just like a man, ain't he?"
One day as I was walking with the dogs toward the front of the property, a lady in a van was driving slowly by watching us. Great Pyrenees attract curiosity. The mom of a dear family with one of our puppies, now grown, once said to me, "When we go out, I wish I could put a sign around King's neck that told all about him, so I could save my breath." 😂 I can relate.
When we made it to the road, the woman rolled down her window and asked about his breed. Atlas, ever the lady's man, stretched up towards her so she could pet his head. Just as she reached out her hand through the open window, a small dog jumped up from her lap and began yapping toward him. In a nano second Atlas went from gentle giant to Cujo, from Don Juan to Hannibal Lecter.
Fortunately the woman had the good sense to step on the gas pedal and get the heck out of there before Mr. Yappy Pants became Atlas's breath mint.
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits." Proverbs 18:21
No matter what size dog you are.
Sometimes it is not what we are saying, but how we are expressing it. I believe nine times out of ten, this can be the issue.
We see so many deconstructions taking place inside of the church today and sadly, I've seen some Christians responding to the individuals so abrasively. The Gospel of Jesus Christ is the sweet song we sing to bring hope to the world, but if it gets sung in harsh tones and melodies, we've lost our witness. As Paul writes to the Corinthians, without love, we've become about as soothing and hospitable as a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And that's just annoying. I think of Will Ferrell banging that cowbell on SNL.
"So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love." ( 1 Corinthians 13:13 )
Our doctrine can be spot on, but without love, words seasoned with grace, they fall on deaf ears and hurting hearts. We need both.
If we have a family member or friend who is considering leaving the faith, can't we have the kindness to hear their story, gently ask them about their experience? Listen to them. I've not always done this in the past, and I regret it immensely. I ask God and them to forgive me. I've found the closer I walk to him each day, the more like him I become. But it is a lifelong journey with many twists and turns, this transformation process. Thank God for his grace. May we return it to others.
I know this is oversimplifying the fix, but I believe love is the starting point. Words are powerful; they can cause pain or healing. And it matters how we execute them.
"A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." ( Proverbs 15:1 )
Somethings are just commonsense exercised with a bit of self-control and grace. The maxims contained in the Book of Proverbs can help us grow in these areas; that's why I chose a devotional for this year based on the biblical wisdom literature.
Because the Farmer and I have to remind each other every time we discuss theology or a cultural problem to stop interrupting the other. We both get so zealous.
The Farmer says that I need a small theological study group to engage with to give him some relief. He's probably right, but for now, while God continues working on his feisty, little Chihuahua, the Farmer takes the yaps. 😂