Healing Brook Farm was named to help me and others find healing after praying for a healing that never materialized into a healing. It's complicated. And God has been slowly untwisting the knot for me ever since.
In a sense, physical healing in our bodies seems unnatural to me.
I am not a medical person, but like all of us, I've watched the cuts and bruises heal seemingly miraculously from my body. When I go for my yearly check-up, one of the questions the nurse always asked is have I fallen in the last six months. Yes, I tell her that I have a farm, and I have fallen many times in the last six months. She always looks a bit alarmed. That's why I walk with my prod in one hand, and my other on the back of a big white dog, mostly to sturdy my aging body when it attempts to trek down muddy hillsides. Praise God for working dogs. Amen and amen.
Bones fuse together, new cells divide to replace the ones that die, scraps and abrasions form into hard, crusty scabs that somehow dissolve into pink flesh.
Healing is a gift.
I remember two years ago when the Farmer and I were battling the COVID virus. It was as if my body had been restrained to the bed with the iron fetters of fatigue, forced to endure the vertigo that tormented my head. By day ten, I became exasperated and started to really cry. The Farmer who was much sicker than me with double pneumonia offered comforting words through his worrisome cough and breathing machine, exhorting me to hang in there.
My battle was extra heavy and layered because I thought he might die. I felt like that old couple in the Titanic movie who just curled up together in their bed and went down with the ship.
Through my tears I prayed in that bed of affliction. I felt the weight of sickness upon our lives and upon the animals and the land. I felt the tension and stress daily upon our sons who called and worried constantly for our well-being. I asked God to please heal us as I laid one hand on myself and one on the Farmer.
God works in mysterious ways to our finite minds, but never to himself. Our symptoms did not immediately disappear, but for the first time in my life I became keenly aware of my breathing. I felt my chest going up and down in a rhythmic motion as if it were in perfect harmony with the beat of my heart.
I could tell God was moving in me, doing something. I wasn't sure what. This was when I first began to recognize and come to know God as the true Life-giver in a more profound way and that healing is a gift from the Life-giver's hand. ( Jeremiah 33:6 ) ( Job 5:18 )
I realized that healing doesn't come because you deserve it or earn it or because you follow the word of faith formula. If that were true Jesus wouldn't have healed the crippled man lying at the pool called Bethesda in John 5 because faith is never mentioned in this passage. In fact, when Jesus asked the lame man if he wants to be healed, he doesn't even say yes. Maybe he's tired of being let down. Maybe he doesn't want to get his hopes up, but in any case, he makes excuses.
And Jesus heals him anyway.
Up to that point after Kathy died, I had developed a very cynical belief system about healing and so called faith healers and even the gift of healing in the Bible. In allowing my sister's death to consume my hope, I was left with a distorted view of the gift and had closed myself off to the work of the Holy Spirit in my own life. As I grieved for her, I believe now that I was also grieving, even outraging, the Holy Spirit with my sin. I also had lost my gratitude for healing. ( Psalm 41:4 ) ( Matthew 13:58 )
But God is so patient and merciful, abounding in such loving-kindness for his sons and daughters.
Time and time again the Farmer would be healed of all sorts of issues, but it was like I was blind to them. I was beginning to get caught in an echo chamber of "fine sounding arguments" that denied gifts God meant for us to enjoy. Gifts he wanted us to experience for his glory through the Holy Spirit. I had swung from the health and wealth, prosperity doctrine all the way over to the belief that maybe some of the spiritual gifts really did pass away.
That day God began to bring healing of a spiritual kind to my wounded heart. I knew this farm had the right name.
Since gifts are given by the Holy Spirit, they are given as he wills and in his ways. Not in mine. Honestly, I think a part of it was that I didn't want to get hurt again, maybe like the paralyzed man at the pool, I didn't let myself believe. Maybe you're doing that too. God wants to untangle and free you from being paralyzed with fear to embrace his gift of healing for your life, in whatever way you may need healing. ( 1 Corinthians 12:11 )
I had to repent from one end of the healing spectrum to the other. From thinking it was always God's will to heal and that somehow my faith and performance were in control of the situation and that I could manipulate God's hand. Some movements within the church have reduced healing to a mechanical means, at times making it into a spectacle that only the holier than thou can obtain. The gift of healing is plugged and played.
This belief system misses the beauty and richness of God's grace and mercy that lies at the heart of healing.
I also repented of thinking the gift of healing was not for today, and for the times I had started to repeat the rhetorical argument that if it was for today, why aren't people just running up and down the hospital wards healing all the sick. To be clear, the cessationist camp does believe God still heals, just not through the gift of healing. Which I know, that sounds confusing. I've grown to see that we're the ones that have complicated healing, not God.
At any rate, I believe both of these views display a misunderstanding of the gift of healing.
The gift of healing isn't like a superpower someone can invoke on demand. The gifts are given by the Holy Spirit, and he uses them as he sees fit. A gift by definition is something we receive with thanksgiving, not something we attach strings upon that connect to our agendas, erroneous theologies, or "righteous" behavior.
I pray that the church has the integrity to look deeper into the gift of healing and all that the Bible teaches us about it before we repeat rhetoric we've heard from our particular camp. Shouldn't we do that in all areas as a matter of fact?
And anyway, is me demanding or manipulating something or giving God the silent treatment really how a parent / child relationship develops into a glorious bond? I don't think so.
The Scriptures tell us that we are to have faith in Jesus, in his ability to heal, to save, to change our lives, to order the universe. In Jesus alone. It doesn't say to have faith that he heals everyone, every time. It says to have faith in Jesus. Not faith in my faith. Faith in Jesus. ( Acts 3:16 )
And if Jesus wants to heal someone who doesn't exhibit a lick of faith, he can do that. I'm not recommending it because without faith the Scriptures tell us that we can not please God; I'm just saying God operates out of his own purposes for his own glory. Not ours. ( Hebrews 11:16 ) ( Isaiah 43:7 )
He doesn't need our help, but he does desire it. On his terms.
When sin and death entered the world in Eden, one of the consequences was the deterioration of our physical bodies. Sin and death are powerful, so, I don't think our bodies were suppose to heal. I don't believe they could after the fall because of the curse that resulted from our sin. However, God's grace abounds, and for a time, in many instances and situations, he allows our bodies to heal.
Why?
Signs and wonders. To display his glory. To be his witnesses. ( Act 1: 7-9 )
At regeneration, the Holy Spirit unites us to the finished work of Jesus and empowers us for ministry, to be his bold witnesses. Jesus said that apart from him we can do nothing, so he sends the promised Holy Spirit to be with us forever. ( John 15:5 ) ( John 14-16 )
Jesus also promises to build his church by using his people, that's right, his people equipped for ministry by the power of the Holy Spirit, building and edifying through the gifts. ( Matthew 16:18 )
When I prayed for our healing that day, in that time and space, God granted to me the gift of healing in my body and my spirit. The Farmer and I both turned a corner and recovered. Others were praying as well from a distance. The gift of healing came down and rested upon us.
I'm not a faith healer, whatever that means anyway. I'm a believer in Jesus. I've learned that the Holy Spirit gives the gift of healing in many various ways. Of course he does, God is not boring. Sometimes it's immediate. Many times he brings it through human means by medicine, therapy, or by the laying on of our humble hands. However, it still all proceeds from his great, sovereign hand.
Often times healing is slow because God is lovingly concerned about more than our broken bodies. He's also the lover of our souls. And yes, sometimes physical and mental healing does not materialize in this life. This pain carries with it the potential to bring us into a place in our relationship with God we could only have dreamt of. He alone holds each piece of our fragmented hearts and knows what it will take to make them whole again and more like his Son.
Paul tells us plainly in 1 Corinthians 13 that when the perfect comes, that's Jesus, all spiritual gifts will cease. Until that time they remain as gifts to the church to help proclaim his name through signs and wonders and to spread his wholeness to a broken world.
As Paul reminded us, one day healing will not be needed. Until then, I'm going to pray for healing for everyone, every chance I get.
And that brings me back to the revelation I had that day on my sick bed.
One fine day, the Scriptures tell us, that because Jesus resurrected from the dead on the third day, he will also give life to our mortal bodies. By the power of the Holy Spirit, our broken bodies will too be resurrected like our Savior's. ( Romans 8:11 ) ( 1 Corinthians 15 )
"For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written: 'Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your victory? O death where is your sting?'" ( 1 Corinthians 15:53-55 )
I believe possibly another reason for all of the different gifts of healing in this life is to give us a foretaste of the life to come. A glorious day when these bodies will be raised with the same power that raised Christ from the dead.
Each time the smallest paper cut heals or the scab disappears or the throbbing headache takes a hike, or the virus turns a corner, or stage 4 cancer is eaten up alive, we experience a bit of the perfect gift of healing to come. When the Perfect comes.
Because healing is a gift.
And in the process of wrestling with all of this healing stuff and refusing to let go until we come to a better understanding of it all, as the Holy Spirit administers knowledge to us over time and through heartache, we grow closer to our Father.
And this too is a gift. 💜