( James 4:6 )
On a cold morning last week as I walked around the sheep field taking stock of the new lambs - I don't normally do winter babies, but since we've had several mild winters in a row I didn't protest when the Farmer decided not to sell Big Mac after last winter's breeding season or send him off to "freezer camp," plus Katahdins have proven to be an exceptionally robust breed with super capable mamas - however that day as the flock circled around the hay bales and I made my way through their morning mealtime, I could see Skipper our lead dog in the distance sitting on a clump of flattened hay in guarding position.
When I got a bit closer it became clear that she was protecting a dead lamb, and as many times as I've encounter this scene it still socks me in the gut. We weren't suppose to experience death. I reached down and hugged her. "I'm sorry, Baby, it's not your fault. You did your job; sometimes, unbeknown to us, these little creatures are just swept back up to their Creator."
Having made sure no vultures landed, Skipper relented of her duties after I collected the small body. Skipper reminded me of the Good Shepherd who cares for his sheep, the Good Shepherd who refused to leave the lambs helpless even when they were dead in their trespasses and sins. ( Ephesians 2:1-10 )
In John 6, Jesus tells the disciples and those gathered around curiously listening to his teaching that no one comes to him unless the Father draws them. He says it twice, expounding on the meaning more the second time.
This was a hard teaching for the people to receive and John goes on to say that 'many' of his disciples turned back and no longer walked with him. Why? I believe because it's human nature to want to call into question how God is commanding his universe and the salvation of his people in his redemptive story. This notion of God's sovereignty strikes at our independence, our cavalier spirit, and goes all the way back to Eden where sin and rebellion have their wicked roots. "We'll decide if we obey; we'll decide if God is really trustworthy by our own standards. We'll decide if we follow Jesus or not."
Jesus told Nicodemus in John 3:17 that God gave his only Son in order that the world might be saved through him. He said that God didn't send his Son to condemn the world - because if you don't believe in the name of the only Son of God, you're condemned already. "What?" He doesn't need to condemn us. He needs to save us because he's the only One who can make us acceptable to God since Adam, our covenant head sinned, resulting in our physical and spiritual death. We're born condemned - the seed of Adam. Yeah I know, another hard saying.
And the only way to be right again with a holy God is for our hearts to be completely changed. We need a new heart. Anything else is like slapping a fresh coat of shiny, red paint on the exterior of an old grey, dilapidated barn. It might look good for a bit, but in the long run the paint doesn't do much good to restore the structure.
Jesus likened the fallen condition of man to beautiful, whitewashed tombs, but full of dead people's bones. ( Matthew 23:27) He told the religious leaders that they were concerned about cleaning the outside of the cup and the plate, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. ( Matthew 23:25 ) It's what is on the inside of a person that is evil and defiles them. ( Mark 7:20-23 )
The understanding of the doctrine of original sin or total depravity, not meaning that we are as bad as we could possibly be, by God's grace, we are not, but it means no part of us has been left unmarred by sin, including our body, soul, mind, will, and emotions. ( Romans 3:9-18, Psalm 14: 1-4, Psalm 53:1-4, Isaiah 53:6 ) We are still created in the image of God, but that image is shattered and muddied.
The Good News of the Gospel is that God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. God has imputed to us Christ's righteousness, the sinless life he lived, as if we lived it ourselves. ( Romans 4:24, 5:8 )
God draws us to Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit regenerating and convicting our hearts, by granting us repentance and giving us faith to believe and trust in Christ. This is the greatest work of the Holy Spirit. Now with us forever, the Holy Spirit enables us to live worthy of Christ and transforms us into his image. ( Ezekiel 36:26, Jeremiah 31:33, Hebrews 8:10, Titus 3:4-7 )
The Holy Spirit truly changes us, and this truth will change how we live. That's the good fruit Jesus said we would produce in him. This knowledge also changes how we raise our children and our grandchildren after us. ( Matthew 7:15-20 )
When our children disobey, we don't just tell them that they need to be good and change their conduct, this is only behavior modification and law with no Gospel and no power to help them truly change. God's law is beautiful and good because it reveals his character and standard, but it doesn't have the power to save us, because unlike Jesus, the God-man, in our sin nature, we don't have the ability to fully obey God's holy requirement.
"For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it." ( James 2:10 )
We must explain the requirement of the law along with original sin so they can fully grasp why it is they are acting out against God's commands. Then we can share the Good News that because of his grace, God loved them even in their sin so much that he sent his Son to pay for those sins and live the perfect life they could never live. We must unpack for them that in their salvation, God graciously and mercifully gives them a new heart and a new desire to obey his commandments, to do what pleases him and not themselves.
We need to explain that this is the only way that they can truly change their behavior, by God giving them this new heart. "Regeneration" is a big word for children, but we can break it down for them - a new heart that only God can give us by his grace, through faith, and by way of the cross of Christ.
If we only teach them the law with no Gospel, this is basically works righteousness. They are only going to become more frustrated in trying to behave because they think it should be in their power to do good and they can't. ( Romans 7 ) No one can.( Romans 3:9-18 ) No, not one.
We can certainly do some good things and curve our behavior a bit, but not lastingly, and not for the right reasons like "I'm obeying so I can get a toy, not because I want to obey God for all he's done for me." This certainly applies to us adults as well.
We must be continuously sharing the Gospel with the children in our circle everyday, maybe concentrating on one aspect at a time for their little minds to understand - catechisms are the best way I know. They are wonderful biblical teaching and training tools. It's a precious thing to share the Word of God with the children in our lives and our privilege.
This should be our first line of evangelism. "You shall teach them diligently to your children, and talk of them when you sit in your house..." ( Deuteronomy 6:7 ) Yes, the Gospel is all through the Old Testament, not just the New Testament. God promised Adam and Eve that he would send a Redeemer and where ever we find ourselves in any of the biblical narrative, the promises of God find their Yes in Christ. ( 2 Corinthians 1:19 )
We never get beyond the Gospel of Jesus Christ, it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes. "To everyone who believes." The Gospel is not just for unbelievers, but for believers too! We need it to help us in our on going struggle with indwelling sin, ( Romans 7 ) in our progressive sanctification process until the promised glorification of our bodies and soul in the next life! Another important doctrine to teach our children! ( Romans 1:16-17 )
The Gospel is God's Word to us. It is the only thing that saves us and then continues to satisfy our souls and transform us into the image of Jesus. As Paul instructed to Timothy, it's sitting under the expository preaching of God's Word from our pastors and elders as a weekly means of grace, and studying it each day on our own as a daily means of grace.
Jesus said that man doesn't live by physical bread alone, but by every bit of God's Word. It's our daily spiritual bread. Not self help, not three steps to know God's will for your life or five points to live prosperous and healthy in the New Year. No. That's just shiny, red paint that will eventually peel off. ( Matthew 4:4 )
Neither is the Gospel necessarily walking an aisle and saying a prayer, filling out a card, or an emotional experience we feel at summer camp. It could be, but we must be careful of false confessions of faith because we get caught up in the moment. The Gospel is brokenness over our sin, not "repeating after me," but feeling shame and guilt over our sin, that's God drawing us to him. It's his mercy. I know, I never thought of feeling shame and guilt as mercy, but it is. This is God's kindness that leads us to repentance. ( 2 Corinthians 7:10 )
When I felt shame, guilt, and a heavy, deep darkness looming over me in my alcoholism, that was God's grace and mercy because it drew me to him. The brokenness is God drawing us to him. Don't ignore it. Respond to him in repentance. "Bear fruit in keeping with repentance." ( Romans 2:4, Matthew 3:8 )
If you say "ouch" more than "Amen," believe me, you're in good company and on the right track.
Repentance is wrestling with our sin, being broken over it, confessing it to God, trusting Christ's death was sufficient to pay for it and believing in his resurrection from the dead. Depending on Him alone and the Holy Spirit to see us through the struggle of sanctification each day is the life we now live and what we will look like as we move out into the world as Christ followers.
These good works that we desire to operate in are proofs of our salvation. We're not saved by them, but for them, as we gladly take up our own cross each day to follow him, counting the cost and knowing beyond everything that Christ is worth it all. ( Philippians 1:6, Ephesians 2:8-10 )
And looking forward to his appearing on that last day when he promises to raise us up.
Because the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the power of God unto salvation, is the only thing that can satisfy our hungry souls, but first and foremost, it is the only thing that can bring a dead creature back to life.
Amen.
All glory be to Christ.
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"But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life." ( Titus 3:4-7 )
My first breeding ram, Fernando. From the HBF archives. |